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“AM I BEING FAIR TO MYSELF?”

On May 10, 2018 by Dteb With 0 Comments - down to earth believer

“The LORD demands accurate scales and balances; he sets the standards for fairness.” (Proverbs 16:11, New Living Translation)

“Not fair!!” (My youngest daughter whenever her older sister and brother beat her in a footrace)

I was thinking about fairness this morning, and it suddenly occurred to me that fairness is very important, but very rare.

The words for “fair” in the Bible are often translated with words like “just, justice,” and “judgment.”  However, justice seems to me to be a word that is too narrow to really convey what the Hebrew and Greek words mean.  “Fair” and “fairness” seem to be a fairer translation.

Throughout the Old and New Testaments, we are told that God is fair.  It may not seem so to us.  In fact, to tell the truth, God very often appears to be anything but fair.  However, I need to distinguish between who God is and who God may appear to be to me.

Furthermore, both the Old and New Testaments tell me that I also need to be fair.  Now, the Scriptures are getting plumb meddlesome!

Being fair to others is very hard work.  If I let a person into my lane on the highway, I may be trying to be fair.  But what about the people behind me?  Am I being fair to them?

It occurred to me this morning that there is one person that I am particularly unfair to: myself.  I frequently talk badly about myself.  I am demanding.  I want to be the perfect everything.  I try to hold myself to a higher standard than I would anyone else—including God.  Seriously!  I would more readily allow for some sort of weakness in God than in myself.

Not FAIR!

But how can I truly believe in the fairness of God, unless I am at least trying to be fair to myself?  If I don’t practice fairness, I tend to make God over into my own image.  That is called idolatry.  It is also called stupidity.

And if I am not fair to myself, how can I be fair to others?  I can only act, based on who I am.  If I am not practicing the fine art of fairness toward myself, how can I make a serious attempt at being fair to others.

So, today I am going to be fair to myself.  To practice and to make progress in the spiritual realm, I need to practice all the virtues—fairness included—toward myself, as well as toward everyone else.

 

 

 

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