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“None of Your Business! Loving the Unfinished Parts of Me”

On December 16, 2019 by Dteb With 0 Comments - down to earth believer

My oldest brother had a saying for everything.  If someone asked a question that was too personal, my brother would say, “That comes under “Nunya.”

Usually, the prying questioner would ask, “What’s ‘Nunya’?”

My brother would reply, “Nunya business!”  (He usually added one or more spicy adjectives, but you get the picture.)

Today, in one of my twelve-step readings, I was encouraged to love the unfinished parts of me.  I don’t do that well, so it was a good reminder.

However, since I don’t like dealing with what I need to do in the present moment, I decided to ask a theoretical question: “Even in eternity, in Heaven, will I still be unfinished?”

And immediately, from somewhere outside of me (or someone outside of me?) came the non-answer to my unwise question.  “That is none of your business!  Get busy loving your unfinished parts right now!”

Loving the unfinished parts of me doesn’t mean that I don’t keep letting God work on them.  It doesn’t mean that I don’t work on them myself.  Quite the contrary!  It is precisely when I am loving the parts of me that aren’t all together that I am able to work and allow God to work in my life.

Loving the unfinished bits of me—and they are often not bits of me, but large swaths of me—is another way of speaking of loving the process.  Years ago, a very dear friend who is a good golfer observed me make a horrible swing, but get a lucky bounce with a good result.  He said something to the effect that it was a good shot, provided that I was more interested in product than in process.  That was a fair and helpful comment in golf and in life.

So, what are your unfinished parts?  Do you love them?

God does, so don’t ask questions that come under the heading of “Nunya!”  Get busy loving!

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